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Anecdotes on Relations Between Africans and African Americans June 10, 2009

Filed under: Articles in English/Les articles anglaise — kikenileda @ 10:53 AM

I have been putting this post in the back burner for a while now. But
as you may have noticed, I now have the perfect excuse to share my
personal point of view on the complex issue of relations between
Africans and African Americans in the United States.

Yes it is a
complex and an ever-evolving relationship. I will try to stay away from
the gross generalization as much as I can. But some cliches may have to
be mentioned for some of the stories that took place.

My first
semester of college in the US ( Tulane, New-Orleans LA) was spent
mostly with the members of the Tulane African Student Association (TASA).
Because of Tulane strong International Public Health program, the
association had quite a few members every year. In fact, TASA was one
of the most active international student association after the
powerhouse Latin American Student Association (LASA) who also threw the liveliest parties in town.
A Kenyan and an Ivorian were in charge of activities when I first came. The welcoming TASA party is also where I met my buddy Nkamany from DRC who some of you may have met.
He
went to high school in Miami-Dade and his roommate was an African
American corner back on the Tulane team. He would be instrumental in
helping me forged friendships with African Americans that I probably
would not have otherwise because I was just too insecure with the
language barrier to speak with anyone outside the classroom (I only
attended lecture-type classes my 1st year to avoid public speaking and
team assignements).

( African dancing class at Tulane U photo via an-to-the-drew)

So
as the semester went, I would usually just hang out with his friends
and try to keep up with the conversation. They were fine with me not
saying much and did not try to get me to say something either.
Once
I got more comfortable, I would try to start a conversation about Tupac
and MJ because I thought it would be a good conversation starter. They
would indulge me but their amused looks told me that I walked right
into a cliche and that there is so much more I need to learn.

My first good conversation was with Charles who told me about this cool software called napster
🙂 if I wanted more unpublished tracks from my fave artists. I did not
even know where my email where stored so it was total magic for me. He
also opened up about his trip to Nigeria to understand his roots that
he traced there. At the time, I did not get why he got emotional
telling the story (hey, I was 19).

Nkamany and his friends took me to a stepping competition. Stepping
is a coordinated dance where pledges from a fraternity compete with
other fraternities. It is dynamic, synchronized and often very
impressive. I never got the point of fraternities but I could
appreciate the beauty of the team work in display.

( stepping by Joe Focus)

Nkamany
and I were a bit of an oddity at TASA. The African and African
Americans students just never find common grounds on campus. Basically,
We did not "get" each other.

Tulane as an African Heritage Museum on campus (Amistad Center) that African Americans are rightfully proud of.
That somehow ticked African students off. The feeling was that" why would you even bother with an African Heritage Museum when you don't try to bound with Africans ?"
Everyone started pointing fingers so we decided to hold a public
discussion on African and African American relations organized by TASA
and the Black Students Association.

One Nigerian graduate student in chemistry started the public panel discussion: " why
do you insist on being called African Americans ? Most of you don't
want to know about Africa and your so-called brothers right here
". Oh boy, way to start a mature conversation, my man. A girl reciprocated: " Africa
is part of our heritage hence we are African American. What is the
problem ? Have you ever been our functions? I do not recall any of you
ever coming to our events
"
A Kenyan on the track team wondered: " why is it that it is easier for me to interact with international students from Colombia, England or Japan than with with you ?"
I
was tense and probably not as productive as we hoped for. We mostly
aired grievances and promised each other to organize more joint
functions but we never got around to do so. One student had the most
pertinent input of the session and she was white Porto Rican, not sure
what that said about your panel.

I wished that Nkamany and his friends were present there but they were all away for job or med school interviews.

I
think the dynamics are not the same anymore. Mostly because of guys
like Nkamany, Africans who grew up here and are as comfortable in a
maki in Kin as they are at a Master P concert at the House of Blues.
Because of Obama obviously, who rocks to both Jay-Z and Stevie Wonder in his Ipod as well as Amadou and Miriam from Bamako.

The
assumption was that because we all had an African heritage, it would
make sense that we would bound more readily ( I know that the diversity
within Africa is also an important factor here). Yet, as someone said,
the commonality of being a foreigner was a stronger bond than the
common heritage.

Obama said that at first, he had a hard time
understanding the black community. But he made a conscious effort to
reach out. That was our mistake at the Tulane symposium, we were too
busy blaming each other instead of reaching out. Back then, did you
really expect a new foreign frosh to know Foxy Brown ?

Now with
the interwebs, I sometimes get my new US hip-hop tunes from my cousins
in Paris. Obama has shown a willingness to reach out to the rest of the
world. I know more and more young black men and women volunteer for
assignment in Africa.

I guess there is no need for a panel
discussion on African and African American relations anymore if there
ever was one. After all, was there ever a panel on European and
European American relations ? Those things seem to work out naturally
with a bit of good will, travel and the interwebs.

By Lova Rakotomalala,

 

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